First you love me then you hate me
That's a game for fools"
-The Stylistics
Reading the lyrics of the song, "Break up to make up" by The Stylistics made me realize that this is one of the main problems in relationships. This song was made in the 1980's and can still be applied in todays dating/marriage/RELATIONSHIPS IN GENERAL society. Now what does that say?
Todays topic is obviously on UNNECESSARY BREAK UPS. It's crazy how as children of our parents we think that we have it bad with the dating scene but in reality your parents could possibly be able to relate to you about problems in the dating world. It is crazy that as a whole different generation we still have this same old problem. Unnecessary break ups are always dramatic and for redundant purposes they are unnecessary. LOL... More than 90% of the time these break ups or I NEED SOME SPACE/TIME are caused by arguments. But the catch to all of these break ups is YOU TWO GET BACK TOGETHER. So who are you fooling? My point of view has to agree with the song above. It is a game for fools because like I just asked WHO ARE YOU FOOLING? I would have to say YOURSELF. Breaking up and then in the near future you get back together is pure craziness. All that you are doing with your I NEED SOME TIME is adding confusion to your relationship and stripping your trust in each other away. Relationships should not be halfway and I'm speaking about marriage too. NO RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE ONE FOOT IN AND THE OTHER FOOT OUT THE DOOR. It is unfair to the person you are with and you will be wasting your time because nobody can stay in love with a HALFWAY FOOL. *real talk* It's either you are together or not. Plain and simple... Now if you truly love someone and you know that this is the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with then treat it as such. NEVER mention BREAK UP. NEVER mention I NEED SOME TIME. NEVER treat your significant other like they can easily be replaced. It is cruel and heart breaking to make your loved one feel as such. Now please... Appreciate what you have. Rekindle the fire. Never be complacent. And the last word of advice that I have, NEVER SAY THINGS YOU DO NOT MEAN...
You can blog for days on this topic! When you are in a committed relationship, remember that it is a gift. Treat it as such! I agree with you 100% on this. You're either in or you're out. You never really know true love until you can honestly live to serve the other person's needs - PERIOD! it's all about being other's minded, not self-centered. When we can have that kind of thinking and act on it, divorce rates will dramatically decrease and our society as a whole will be less broken :)
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