Today's topic is definitely one of my favorite topics to speak of. My husband has told me before that I am IN LOVE WITH LOVE and this statement still remains. True love is full of passion, loyalty, trust and is immoveable and unbreakable plus much much more. Love is a verb filled with honorable words and actions and should NEVER be taken for-granted. Now each and every one of us have been in the uncomfortable situation of conflict between you and your "Love". Whatever the topic is we all have encountered some kind of issue that "raises our blood temperature" or so to speak. But what I truly want to speak about is how you choose to handle that current situation.
My point of view is love will always remain as is, no matter what situation arises. It will always remain as love. Nobody can say, "I love you" and a minute later after an argument say, "I hate you" and literally mean it. A wise person will tell you that there is a happy medium with arguing. It's called FIGHTING FAIRLY. If a couple does not argue then I would say that it is an unhealthy relationship because that is a sign of NO-COMMUNICATION. A couple that argues too much is obviously in an unhealthy relationship because it is a sign of MISCOMMUNICATION. A couple that argues fairly shows submissiveness on both ends which helps the couple to be able to listen to each other and work out their conflict in a loving manner and that is what I would call CLEAR COMMUNICATION. There are so many factors to accomplishing The Art of True Love; and communication plays a huge role in this achievement. It is clear that even if you do not say I LOVE YOU on a daily basis to your loved one that they will still know that you love them BUT the truth of the matter is that it is still nice to hear it. Stay true to who you are and who your LOVE is to you. REMAIN IRREPLACEABLE & IMMOVEABLE.Caution: NEVER SAY ANYTHING YOU DO NOT MEAN a second of "Verbal-Aim-Low-Victory" will only cause heartache to your relationship and will strip away the trust between you two one layer at a time till their is nothing left.
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ReplyDeleteHere goes my input, from a Man’s Point of view Pua : ) Great choice of topics. I truly believe in my heart that love is our greatest victory. How we love, who we love and the love for mankind should be one of our greatest accomplishments. Quite often men do not comment or respond to blogs like this (or at least I haven’t seen many responses). Ya know with all of the façades out there in life and the increasing rate of divorces, I am much more grateful to have the love of my life today, Kristy. True love is FULL of passion yes. Sure as men we go through our bachelor days, but its not until we understand the Lord’s plan is for us in regards to love, will we understand the possibilities of love. Simply put, when you understand how beautiful life is and even more beautiful it is with LOVE as the foundation, loving your partner, and communicating with your partner is never a task, a challenge, or a even a job, but instead it’s a team building effort towards your happiness in life. The bond will then grow to be immoveable and unbreakable.
To me there isn’t much more to say than that. I was also told back in my single days that I was in love with love. I guess you can say that, but I just knew that there was a love out there that would soulfully understand and love me for eternity. I met her and am glad to call my wife more than my best friend, but my life partner. We continue to grow daily…with our communication, with our love, and our eternal bond. We love instilling the values of this love to our children. As a man of faith and one who more than believes in love, I hold myself to a higher standard of love, communication & commitment to my wife. I can go on for days here, but I will simply re-quote this passage from the blog: “Love is a verb filled with honorable words and actions and should NEVER be taken for-granted.”
Thank you Braddah Gabe for being able to comment on such a taboo subject for men. I appreciate the support by reading my blogs. I hope you enjoy them. Please send tour wife and beautiful baby our love. Take care!
ReplyDeletei still consider myself a newly-wedd. my hubby and i are learning a lot about ourselves and what makes our marriage grow. one thing we've been committed to is clear, honest communication. it is sooo hard sometimes! there have been so many times when going to bed angry seemed like a much easier solution. talking it out and really working through the tough situations is what keeps us so close to each other. i really believe that communication IS how u show love, and it's often the difference between makin' up and breakin' up.
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