The Art of True Love: Communication

This topic is definitely a broad topic. There are so many different types of love and situations and actions that can help one master the art of true love. But what it honestly comes down to is one word... You...

Today's topic is definitely one of my favorite topics to speak of. My husband has told me before that I am IN LOVE WITH LOVE and this statement still remains. True love is full of passion, loyalty, trust and is immoveable and unbreakable plus much much more. Love is a verb filled with honorable words and actions and should NEVER be taken for-granted. Now each and every one of us have been in the uncomfortable situation of conflict between you and your "Love". Whatever the topic is we all have encountered some kind of issue that "raises our blood temperature" or so to speak. But what I truly want to speak about is how you choose to handle that current situation.

My point of view is love will always remain as is, no matter what situation arises. It will always remain as love. Nobody can say, "I love you" and a minute later after an argument say, "I hate you" and literally mean it. A wise person will tell you that there is a happy medium with arguing. It's called FIGHTING FAIRLY. If a couple does not argue then I would say that it is an unhealthy relationship because that is a sign of NO-COMMUNICATION. A couple that argues too much is obviously in an unhealthy relationship because it is a sign of MISCOMMUNICATION. A couple that argues fairly shows submissiveness on both ends which helps the couple to be able to listen to each other and work out their conflict in a loving manner and that is what I would call CLEAR COMMUNICATION. There are so many factors to accomplishing The Art of True Love; and communication plays a huge role in this achievement. It is clear that even if you do not say I LOVE YOU on a daily basis to your loved one that they will still know that you love them BUT the truth of the matter is that it is still nice to hear it. Stay true to who you are and who your LOVE is to you. REMAIN IRREPLACEABLE & IMMOVEABLE.

Caution: NEVER SAY ANYTHING YOU DO NOT MEAN a second of "Verbal-Aim-Low-Victory" will only cause heartache to your relationship and will strip away the trust between you two one layer at a time till their is nothing left.

Breakup To Makeup.... The Same Old Game

"Break up to make up, that's all we do
First you love me then you hate me
That's a game for fools"
                              -The Stylistics


Reading the lyrics of the song, "Break up to make up" by The Stylistics made me realize that this is one of the main problems in relationships. This song was made in the 1980's and can still be applied in todays dating/marriage/RELATIONSHIPS IN GENERAL society. Now what does that say?


Todays topic is obviously on UNNECESSARY BREAK UPS. It's crazy how as children of our parents we think that we have it bad with the dating scene but in reality your parents could possibly be able to relate to you about problems in the dating world. It is crazy that as a whole different generation we still have this same old problem. Unnecessary break ups are always dramatic and for redundant purposes they are unnecessary. LOL... More than 90% of the time these break ups or I NEED SOME SPACE/TIME are caused by arguments. But the catch to all of these break ups is YOU TWO GET BACK TOGETHER. So who are you fooling? 


My point of view has to agree with the song above. It is a game for fools because like I just asked WHO ARE YOU FOOLING? I would have to say YOURSELF. Breaking up and then in the near future you get back together is pure craziness. All that you are doing with your I NEED SOME TIME is adding confusion to your relationship and stripping your trust in each other away. Relationships should not be halfway and I'm speaking about marriage too. NO RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE ONE FOOT IN AND THE OTHER FOOT OUT THE DOOR. It is unfair to the person you are with and you will be wasting your time because nobody can stay in love with a HALFWAY FOOL. *real talk* It's either you are together or not. Plain and simple... Now if you truly love someone and you know that this is the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with then treat it as such. NEVER mention BREAK UP. NEVER mention I NEED SOME TIME. NEVER treat your significant other like they can easily be replaced. It is cruel and heart breaking to make your loved one feel as such. Now please... Appreciate what you have. Rekindle the fire. Never be complacent. And the last word of advice that I have, NEVER SAY THINGS YOU DO NOT MEAN...