Thursday, April 7, 2011

Monogamy...

"Pua and Tusi kissing in a tree K-I-S-S-I-N-G
First comes love, then comes marriage
Then comes a baby in a baby carriage"

Child rhymes sound like life is blissfully easy but as adults we know otherwise. We know that if you want to buy nice things you need money and to get money we need a job. We know that if you want a relationship you need to socialize and to get a relationship we need to be open to it. When you do achieve the Facebook status of "in a relationship", in sports terms, THE GAME IS NOT OVER. Fb can prove it! There's more options such as: Engaged, Married and etc... But on a serious note, when you do find a special someone that is willing to share their hopes and dreams and merge it with yours you have found what I experience, HAPPINESS.

What I want to talk to you about is having a monogamous relationship that will hopefully turn into a monogamous marriage. Instead of beating around the bush and confusing you with a bunch of pretty words I will just be blunt. Being monogamous can be easy or hard IT ONLY DEPENDS ON YOU. If you put your special someone above all others then no temptation will creep into your mind. Sounds ugly when I say it like that, huh? But cheating is ugly and cheating doesn't start physically it begins in your mind. That's why I said being monogamous can be easy or hard IT ONLY DEPENDS ON YOU 

My point of view is simply said but hard to achieve. In my heart I knew what I wanted in a man. To name a few aspects, I wanted him to be God-fearing, loving, selfless, respectful towards me and my family, motivated and of the same faith. I am truly indebted to the Lord for sending me such a man and more. Now if you find someone that is willing to give up the single life and has the same dreams as you for example, 

1. Having a Monogamous marriage
2. Starting a family
3. Spending the rest of their life with you

If you find that special someone that is more than willing to share their heart, mind and soul with you then I must repeat what I said in my "What is your definition of LOVE" blog, 

"...if you find TRUE LOVE and don't mix that up with silly moments of lusting infatuation but if you find TRUE LOVE never try to control it, hurt it, sabotage it, or fight it. Do nothing but CHERISH THE MOMENTS and APPRECIATE IT."

-Blog inspired by Steve Hardison


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  1. IF YOU ARE SINGLE AND READY FOR A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP THEN PLEASE READ BELOW...


    To: Steve Hardison
    Subject: Stephen McGhee's Lifetime Partner

    My Lifetime Partner

    My name is Stephen McGhee. I am on a quest to find a woman that wants to get married and create a family together. To some it may seem odd that I am willing to put myself out there with such clarity and purpose in the area of romance. To me, finding that special woman to spend the rest of my life with; is the single most important thing I could do.
    In my past, I have not understood what it really meant to be committed. Now I understand and I want you to join me on this fabulous journey. I believe in creation. I believe that there is a woman that wants what I am offering. Perhaps, as you read this; it is you that I am looking for. Or, perhaps you know the lady that I will marry and have a family with.
    Let me share a little bit about myself. I am a loving, powerful, spiritual man. I am an adventure to be with. My work in the area of leadership and positive global impact is paramount in my heart and head. I am abundant, secure and at the top of my professional game. Relationships with family and friends are very important to me. For my woman, I am grounded in loving commitment. I listen deeply. I am offering sensual, romantic monogamy to the woman that I will marry. I am kind and directive all in the same breath. Like you, I am unique and see the beauty in life and love. I am free. I am expressed and look forward to sharing it in a creative and loving union.
    To me, the single most important quality I want in this partnership is God Awareness. I want to be with a conscious woman that understands the spiritual nature of love, life and partnership. If you are for me, you are wise, loving and appreciate the power in your feminine energy. You are a Goddess and you want to be with a man that can appreciate the sensual nature of your spirituality. We share in this love of Spirit and together we will serve family, community and the world as our foundation for life is our love for each other.
    If you are my future wife, you are gorgeous, fit and abundant. You want to have a baby and create a family with me. You do not have kids. You want to have a husband that will love you for the rest of your life. You enjoy the depth of a monogamous relationship and you are complete with your past relationships. You are vital, appreciate nature and making love is both spiritual with an appreciation for physical attraction. You appreciate the simple side of life and appreciate the value of nice things and amazing places. You have wealth in your life and don’t have to work if you don’t want to. And you appreciate the abundance of my life, as I create additional financial security to serve our life, our family and the greater whole.
    Together we will make the world a better place. We will exemplify the beauty of a progressive and powerful couple. The artistry of you and me is creative. I am ready for you now. I have prepared my entire life to be a man of integrity and deep personal commitment. My greatest focus in life is my relationship with Spirit, which will spill into your life forevermore.
    If you are reading this letter and you fit what I have described, I cannot wait to meet you; and explore this possibility together. If this does not fit for you, will you assist me in finding her? Lastly, I realize that compatibility and chemistry must come together. We will never know that until we can BE together, listen together and create US.
    If you would like to know more about me and what I believe in, you can find me online in various ways. One way is to see my blog at http//www.thegetrealblog.com
    Stephen Paul McGhee
    303-887-8404 Mobile.


    Stephen McGhee
    303-887-8404
    Stephen McGhee Leadership
    http://www.theaconcaguaproject.com
    http://www.Miracleleader.com
    http://www.thegetrealblog.com
    http://www.mcgheeleadership.com

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