Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Confused Dating...

I can honestly say from the bottom of my heart that I am so happy to be out of the dating game. When I hear things from people about how the dating pool is going I feel sympathy for them. Dating was already complicated back in the days and it sounds like to me that it's only but gotten WORSE! The phrase I continuously hear is ITS SLIM PICKINGS. That is one phrase that is depressing and funny at the same time.



Every situation is different because everybody is different. I'm going to break this down and make this a little more specific. Today I'm going to talk about CONFUSED DATING. Have you ever said, "QUIT CALLING ME AND TEXTING ME" or have said it in a different form but still meaning QUIT CALLING ME AND TEXTING ME but the catch to this is you are waiting by the phone pissed off because he/she quit calling and texting you or you've said, "OH YEAH JUST CALL OR TEXT ME WHENEVER YOU GET THE CHANCE." And you wait by the phone pissed off because he/she hasn't called or texted you within 24 hrs. HAHAHA... You know you have done this at least once in your life but if you remember the outcome resulted in an unnecessary argument because he/she hasn't called or texted you. Now if you think about it you will realize that the final outcome was in your hands from the very beginning.

My point of view... All of this is nothing but games. The whole "DON'T CALL OR TEXT ME BUT YOU BETTER CALL OR TEXT ME" thing is exhausting don't you think? Dating would be one step closer to easier if people were straight forward rather than what we call BEATING AROUND THE BUSH. Now if you have been through this similar situation on either side let me know what you think about all of this.

3 comments:

  1. Dating is definitely an experience. However its those experiences that shape the person you eventually become. Whether it be a good person or a bad person. As far as confused dating goes.....here's my point of view.....

    DON'T WASTE MY TIME!!!!

    Call me or don't call me but just let me know.

    Be with me or not.....just let me know.

    My point JUST LET ME KNOW!!!!

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  2. Confused dating..hmmm. My situation was different but I can honestly say that I have gotten to know myself and have grown a lot AFTER the breakup. I know what I want and what I don't..but dating can be hard. I dont plan on getting in any relationship right now..and I make sure that's the first thing a guy knows when he wants to 'kick it.'
    All I say.. Keep communication clear and honest. If you're questioning him or yourself..then you're not ready..like you say..you're confused.

    Don't expect anything..cause you will be disappointed. Just accept and appreciate the unexpected..and if it works out..great. If not..you won't get hurt.

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  3. So true! Communication is key and honesty is expected. Love it!

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