What is your definition of LOVE?

Love [luhv] noun,verb
-noun
1. a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
-verb
1. to have love or affection for another person; to be in love

Today I am not talking about the love for a family member. I'm talking about the knock you off your feet and make your heart skip a beat kind of love. In the dictionary there are multiple definitions of love but the first definitions pretty much sum up what I am posting about today.

Sometimes and I don't mean all times but sometimes people can mix up the deep definition of love with shallow thoughts and high expectations of what love is. I may even be able to say that there is a shallow invisible checklist. For example,
1. He must be at least 6 ft tall
2. He must be up to code with fashion
3. Blue eyes wouldn't hurt either
4. He must have a nice body but not a body builder type body
5. He must have a CAR! Oh... That should have been #1
6. Another #1 he must have a job but not just any job. A CAREER!
7. Goes w/ #6. If he is pursuing music I need to see his credentials and if it's worth it
8. Oh I forgot! Brunette hair to go with the blue eyes
9. There are sooo many #1's HE MUST NOT LIVE WITH MAMA!
10. BEING RICH WOULD DEFINITELY BE A PLUS!
11. I forgot to say he must spoil me on my birthday, our anniversary, and all holidays no matter what holiday for example: Presidents Day lol...

My point of view is if you are looking for the bad in someone you will find it. No matter who the person is you will find the bad if searched for. Growing up you always heard ALWAYS LOOK AT THE BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE. That saying can be put towards love as well. ALWAYS LOOK AT THE BRIGHT SIDE OF LOVE. My advice to you is if you find TRUE LOVE and don't mix that up with silly moments of lusting infatuation but if you find TRUE LOVE never try to control it, hurt it, sabotage it, or fight it. Do nothing but CHERISH THE MOMENTS and APPRECIATE IT.

Confused Dating...

I can honestly say from the bottom of my heart that I am so happy to be out of the dating game. When I hear things from people about how the dating pool is going I feel sympathy for them. Dating was already complicated back in the days and it sounds like to me that it's only but gotten WORSE! The phrase I continuously hear is ITS SLIM PICKINGS. That is one phrase that is depressing and funny at the same time.



Every situation is different because everybody is different. I'm going to break this down and make this a little more specific. Today I'm going to talk about CONFUSED DATING. Have you ever said, "QUIT CALLING ME AND TEXTING ME" or have said it in a different form but still meaning QUIT CALLING ME AND TEXTING ME but the catch to this is you are waiting by the phone pissed off because he/she quit calling and texting you or you've said, "OH YEAH JUST CALL OR TEXT ME WHENEVER YOU GET THE CHANCE." And you wait by the phone pissed off because he/she hasn't called or texted you within 24 hrs. HAHAHA... You know you have done this at least once in your life but if you remember the outcome resulted in an unnecessary argument because he/she hasn't called or texted you. Now if you think about it you will realize that the final outcome was in your hands from the very beginning.

My point of view... All of this is nothing but games. The whole "DON'T CALL OR TEXT ME BUT YOU BETTER CALL OR TEXT ME" thing is exhausting don't you think? Dating would be one step closer to easier if people were straight forward rather than what we call BEATING AROUND THE BUSH. Now if you have been through this similar situation on either side let me know what you think about all of this.

My Living Inspiration

Last night my husband read my current posts under my, A GLIMPSE OF MY LIFE blog and he complimented me on my writing. I never really thought about if my posts were good or not. All I felt was that it was therapeutic to blog plus it is fun. He has encouraged me to start a new blog page titled, "Pua's Point of View". He has inspired me to write more about topics that people can relate to whether it be about love, dating, relationships, parenthood or more controversial topics like different types of drama that may have to deal with love, dating, relationships and parenthood.  Another topic that will be addressed is the high expectations of a NFL wife  and how the public may view our lives looking from the outside in but what I am going to blog is the truth about what goes on behind the scenes.

Before I conclude this post I would like to thank my husband, Taitusi Lomu Lutui for always pushing me to be my best. For never letting me be complacent. For always being my guide and my rock. For installing the security and strength in my heart. And for inspiring me to open my heart and mind to start up this blog. Because of your passionate and powerful speaking about my writing I would have to say that all of this and my life is dedicated to you, My Love.

Welcome to Pua's Point of View! Now let the blogging begin!